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December 22, 2003

Fight the system...

I am continuously bombarded by pressure to adopt a more traditional lifestyle. A lifestyle more conducive to approval by the majority. I feel the stare of others wondering how I can't see it as they do. Wondering how I can be so immature. Hopes and dreams are one thing, but then theirs life. You gotta have a plan, and a car.

Any time you are in the minute minority, you can't help but wonder whether you're wrong. You can't help but doubt. I am a very logical person and tend to view things systematically. I try and see their viewpoint. I really delve into the question my being wrong. At this point, I don't see it. Deciding what you are going to do this minute, this day, this month, this year, this career, this life, should be based on what is best for you, your family, your friends, your community. Not based on pressure to fit a mold you may not want to fit.

Most of the time, it is not that we choose the wrong path, rather that we do not choose at all and as a result, have our path chosen for us. If you do not pick your ideologies and beliefs, they will be set to their default values based on your current time, place, and peers. For most, this involves a notion of some sort of career that allows you and your family to live comfortably while acquiring those things that demonstrate your success to others. Those 'things' are decided by advertising and peer pressure (mostly advertisers). I can't help but see that many of the decisions we make are so counter to anything we would do if we just thought of the ramifications instead of just assuming the system can't be wrong. Debt. DEBT!!! Would any rational person, consciously thinking of the ramifications, buy clothing on credit with terms! I understand that debt doesn't have to be bad, that some debt is good. But most isn't. Most of the time, it is frivolous. Having so many people spend so much more than they have, artificially inflates the mean, spendable money for everyone inevitably raising prices.

One of these overlooked areas is the true cost of acquiring possessions. Almost all possessions require ongoing maintenance. At the simplest level, the more you have the more space you need to store your stuff. But most individual items require some maintenance itself. It gets worse when we look at things related to technology because upgrading to newer, better models of what you have always seems mandatory and sometimes is. You will need to replace your TV within the next 7 years at which point all TV will be HDTV as dictated by the FCC.

At this point I often get labeled as many things I am not. I am not an anarchist. I do not believe all possessions are bad. I do not believe money is evil. I do not believe it is wrong to want your own home or a nice car. What I believe is that we should choose our own path and see how our actions, harmless though they may be, dictate our path. It is not enough to decide on a path, you must support that decision with action. Complacency does lead somewhere, but it may not be where you would choose. So my feeling is that many of those that see me as being immature or unrealistic are themselves a product of complacency. They have adopted social mores by default based on popularity. My actions are merely the attempt at choosing my own values and path based on what I deem logical and beneficial.

What of the consequences to my insubordination? I'll have to get back to you on that one.

PS. Its funny how, when confronted with someone that disagrees with us, we often attribute it to them not having thought the issue through as thoroughly as we have.

Posted by wonko at December 22, 2003 10:06 PM

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I'm beginning to think that the "System" has evolved in such a way that it prevents the success of those who want and choose to fight against it. For every one of us, who's eyes are open to what that system is trying to take from us, there are thousands of "THEM" who prevent us from making our dreams a reality. I don't think that the majority mean to do this, rather they do it inherently. They believe as much in what they've been told and learned from oppression as that of which we believe. We are grossly out numbered. Wherever we turn with our ideals of freedom.....freedom of thought, freedom from possessions, freedom of lifestyles, freedom's of whatever, we are met with resistance from those who refuse to go against the grain, and ultimately to them, against what is "Supposed" to happen or be. The complacency they share is also inherent and comes from what "WE" are supposed to do and feel. It is that complacency which builds the wealth of America; "If we continue to go the way of the "American Dream" we "WILL" be successful...If we just want it bad enough, we "Might" just make it happen." Unfortunately for the "Free Thinkers" the American Dream wasn't tailored to or for us. It was written around us, with the foresight that we would not be a cause big enough to warrant concern. Were they right? I'm beginning to think so.

Posted by: obigabu at December 22, 2003 11:44 PM

There are two things I disagree with in your statement. First that you have a good chance of becoming successful in the system if you just want it enough. First of all, that depends on your definition of making it. Traditionaly, in the American Dream of today, that has to do with a certain amount of financial freedom and a certain amassment of possessions. Most peoples idea of 'making it', based on material measures, are too lofty. These lofty goals are encouraged by religious leaders such as Anthony Robins. Of course the real issue is that success is based on material possessions in the first place.



Secondly I disagree that our founding fathers had such material ideas of success in mind, though I may be just being naive. In fact, I believe the opposite, that the founders of this country MAY have had exactly us in mind. Those that wanted freedom from the system itself. Isn't that one of the main reasons they came here in the first place? I know I'm overly simplifying, but I think our founding fathers wouldn't be happy with where their country has gone. Then again, the founding fathers were wealthy land owners and would probably be just as socio-economically l33t today. They'd probably believe the same BS.

Posted by: Wonko at December 23, 2003 07:51 AM

It may not be the case you were thinking of, but I know a lot of people who bought things like clothing (and food) on credit while they were students because they had no other means of purchasing necessities. At that point, it becomes a trade off of what you value more: education, or freedom.

Posted by: kasei at December 23, 2003 09:19 AM

"If we continue to go the way of the "American Dream" we "WILL" be successful...If we just want it bad enough, we "Might" just make it happen." -- This was meant to critisize those people like Tony Robbins and others that buy in to the thought "if only wanted it bad enough". I didn't mean to suggest that I was saying this, rather I was trying to elude to the fact that it's what we are tought by the system. And it's as dumb as it sounds.

Posted by: obigabu at December 23, 2003 12:01 PM

Re: Kasei
I intentionally and specifically said it is bad most of the time. It would be easy to come up with senarios where debt is justified. If a single mom bought food on her credit cards so her kids could eat while she was between jobs, I'd think it was justified. Most debt is frivelous though.

Posted by: Wonko at December 23, 2003 01:27 PM

I said it before and I'll say it again: "All DEBT is BAD and is meant to keep us slave to the SYSTEM". Debt might be needed or justified for survival but that doesn't make it a good thing. The American Dream is fulfilled a little more each time that single mom uses her credit card to buy food for her starving children.

"American Dream" = "Taking advantage of someone else's misfortune!"

Now that's a great thing isn't it?

Posted by: obigabu at December 23, 2003 08:01 PM

I would have to disagree with the prospect that the American Dream is fully capable of being realized with the right effort, because it simply isn't. If that were the truth then the glass ceiling that keeps the lower class at bay would be easily overcomable, which it obviously isn't. The success of the individual is proportionally rated against their ability to form the correct relationships with the right people. In simpler terms, it takes money to get money or attract money rather, and in our modern consumerism society, money is everything. Money buys you success, money buys you that cute fleece pullover that all your friends will envy, money will give you the freedom to oppress those less fortunate. Our monitary system is just an extension of the "survival of the fittest" ideology that has the better portion of an entire generation slaves to its unswerving power. This was an inevitable byproduct of the Neolithic Evolution. We are just the ones unfortunate enough to experience its birth. But as everything in life has a cycle of birth and death, the question I want answered, is when, or how, it will die.

Posted by: liberatinggreed at January 12, 2004 05:28 PM

free your self from the system and you will find a life 50 million times better then this one. a life where any thing is possible even the flight of our selfs. love is a word but the connection is unity. mankind is a family. a family cannot survive divided so neither can mankind. we have to unite or we will suffer the consequences.

Posted by: liam at April 28, 2004 04:18 AM

if you are not part of the cure you are part of the virus. and this virus babylon and rome will be wiped out. praise be to us and the creator. for we are the creator and the creator is us.

Posted by: liam at April 28, 2004 04:21 AM

if we realise that we are in the matrix of nature. and we free our selfs then we can create our own needs out of thought. if we need clothes think of them in the state of consciousness called samedhi when it is gained and it will be so. this i believe is how our brother and father jesus turned water into wine

Posted by: liam at April 28, 2004 04:24 AM

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